The back and spine are related to our roots,
with the deepest foundations where our beliefs and our more intimate scale of values grow. The back is what allows us to keep
up, to shoulder our burden, to address the circumstances of life, to our human
condition, to adversity.
"I have a heavy load on my
shoulders," we say when the responsibilities we have to assume weigh too
much. When we strive to shoulder the responsibilities of others, when we are
creators of happiness or misfortunes of those who are on our side ... it is a
burden so great that we crave someone to help us and support us, but, when not
counting on that help, we get angry and we end up with a sore back. All back
problems relate to the support.
Do I feel supported by my life?
"No one
understands me".
"No one supports me and helps me”
"I have many
responsibilities, I feel a heavy charge”
The back also symbolizes that part of us we do
not see or do not want to see, the shadow. By the same, the back can hurt us
when we leave unresolved situations ... "behind us".
Lower lumbar region: The lumbar area of the spine is actually the
base, which "supports" which allows us to stay upright, standing,
"deal". The problems in the lumbar area mean a devaluation of a
conflict of personality (according to work, family or life in general). We talk about
the inability to cope with life and its situations, the inability to take the
material dimension of existence (work, money, family, responsibilities, etc.).
They also reflect the feelings of insecurity, helplessness, fear, especially
fear of failure and poverty.
"You cannot take more stuff!".
"Since I am the pillar of the family, without me, everything falls
apart”
This part is associated with having: (have money, a house, a spouse,
children, work, etc.). When there is pain in the lower back, it indicates that
the person needs to "have" to feel supported, but does not dare to
acknowledge and to express it. These people need to be allowed the right to
property or want to have someone to feel safe. To achieve this it is necessary
to begin to make their demands and begin to rely on the abundance of the
Universe.
Similarly, you can grieve the lower back when we feel betrayed or being
caught from behind. Expressions like "I felt stabbed in the back",
"talk behind my back", "I have turned their backs",
"act behind me", etc. suggest hostility, suspiciousness, aggression
or treason.
Upper region: It represents the relationship with the family, the emotional aspect,
support emotionally: "I am the pillar of my family". Do we feel
loved? Are we willing to love?
When there is pain in the upper back, it is because the person suffers
from emotional well-insecure because he/she feels that others block it, or
because they do not notice the "support" of their family.
The way you have to find this security is doing things for others, and also
to express your love. At the same time, you feel loved when someone does
something for you.
Pain in the dorsal back can also evoke a sense of guilt or responsibility
for the suffering of a loved one.
Cervical pain: Folding the neck, being forced to lower your head in shame, capitulate.
Reflect conflicts of moral devaluation, injustice or submission, humiliation
...
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Do you feel that you are carrying all the weight, it is you who have to do
everything? It was your own choice.
What has been the reason why you moved to carry everything?
Nothing and no one can give us unconditional happiness. To this it can
only be reached through unconditional acceptance of ourselves.
When we want to do something for someone, whom we love, we do it just for
love, without expecting anything in return.
