One of the key moments that
defines our personality and the kind of life that we’ll have, is the method of
childbirth through which we were born.This is a part of what we call The
Parental Projection Period. This is the period of time 9 months before
conception up to 3 years of age.
We show our first sign of
“autonomy” during our delivery. In fact, the babies themselves are the ones who
determine the time in which they are born. “How” the delivery is developed and
done, will trace our patterns of behaviour throughout our whole life.
The way we are born defines the
way we develop our personal, emotional, working life, etc.
Induced Labor And Delivery
When we force a delivery, we are
depriving the baby of the opportunity to decide when he or she is ready to be
born. Consequently, the people that are born under such circumstances will face
difficulties in knowing when is the right time to start new projects and will
always find themselves waiting for others to make decisions for them.
Sped up Labor and Delivery
When a woman goes into labor and
the doctor decides to speed up the delivery, the babies that are born will have
a high level of “urgency” in any situation during their lives. This type of
labor creates a feeling of “There’s no need to wait for the right time. All
things need to be rushed and done right away”.
Cesarean Section
The baby may experience a sense
of discontinuation and might be born with the feeling that he or she has been
diverted from their path and natural rhythm. He/she may also feel expelled from
an environment where he/she felt safe.
Emergency Cesarean Section
The baby gets confused. He or she
doesn’t understand what is happening. The process is interrupted. Something has
come up, disabling the baby to complete the process. This could result in
people who begin a process and suddenly stop doing it. “Why keep going? Maybe
something urgent will happen to distract me from my initial plan”.
Scheduled Cesarean Section
The baby doesn’t feel ready to be
born, but a doctor decides to force the child’s entrance into the world by
pulling he/she from a safe place because they (the doctors) think that “the
baby is ready”. This is a fatal mistake because a person born this way will
feel totally powerless, like a loser, and will probably be unable to make
decisions or plans. These people also have difficulties to finish tasks or
reaching the end of something. They always need external help, like a last
minute miracle, to save them. This scheduled c- section can also fear of light
and of sharp objects. They also feel guilty of having wounded their own
mothers.
Unconscious Birth Mother
When there’s a high dose of
anesthesia, the baby is born asleep. This results in the type of people who
suddenly begin doing something and start to feel tired and sleepy midway. They
also have a tendency to avoid emotions and sufference. They may use drugs and
alcohol in order to do so, and fail to fix their own problems. If the mother
dies, the child would live a life of guilt, and happiness would be forbidden,
since the individual would be “paying for killing his/her mother”.
Premature Birth
Premature birth expresses the need to “be born now”.
This need may be motivated by the mother’s own fears, emotional absence,
or physical illnesses. When the mother is frightened by something, the baby
receives the signal that he/she needs to come out at that moment, or else
“it’ll be too late”. People born prematurely often have concerns about
punctuality, fear of being late, anxiety, fear of making others wait, etc. They
could be fragile, weak and vulnerable (even though they might hide behind a
mask of self confidence and strength). They are very self conscious and worry
about what others think of them.
Prolonged Labor and Delivery
Faced with a difficulty or a
conflict, the mother wants to keep the child because it is not the time or she
doesn’t feel ready. The mother intends to continue pregnancy,carrying the
child inside, even if her child is ready. Those who are results of prolonged
labor will usually have difficulties to perform actions, find time management
to be a challenge, and will often create delays. They also tend to be always
late or not be aware of the existence of time.
Precipitous Labor and Delivery
These are the kinds of births in
which the baby comes out faster than the mother feels that he/she’s coming.
These people are often nervous, hurried, and always rushing. They want
everything to be done immediately and always try to speed things up. They are
energetic, hyperactive, and good athletes. They feel like they can achieve
success quickly and they do everything very fast. They also have many ideas,
and taking to extremes, they may suffer from thyroid imbalances and disease
like hyperthyroidism.
Slow Labor
The labor starts but the mother
takes hours to achieve the proper dilatation for the baby to come out. This
results in people who do everything slowly, and are never in a hurry. They may
have the idea of “being born slowly has saved my life”. They find themselves to
be lazy and may suffer from being overweight or could end up having having
thyroid disorders such as hypothyroidism.
Assisted Vaginal Delivery (with
the use of forceps of a vacuum)
There is a conflict between the
mother and the father. The baby begins the process of labor, the dilatation is
good, things get moving, but at a the moment of birth everything gets blocked.
Here, we make use of forceps or vacuums to bring the baby out. People who are
born this way have challenges in reaching the end of things by themselves
because their path of action was determined by their birth. They are always
looking for work partners. They need to do things in group because this is how
it happened when they were born. When these people act and do important things
in their lives, they begin their course of action easily, but at the peak of
the process, they get emotionally blocked and feel that “I cannot do this
alone”. They dislike being controlled and may feel that other people manipulate
and force them to act. They fear pain, avoid physical contact, are emotionally
detached, and need outside help. But such help will hurt them. They suffer from
different types of headaches such as migraines, neuralgias, tension headaches,
etc.
Nuchal Cord (umbilical cord
gets wrapped around the baby’s neck)
There could be a
transgenerational memory related to saving the couple, choking, and hanging
(memories involving the neck). The baby begins labor, the cervix reaches
dilation, the baby is placed in the birth canal, and the cord gets wrapped
around the baby’s neck, choking the him/her. The brain will register that
autonomy is life threatening. The people born this way will have financial
difficulties and issues when it comes to making a living because at the moment
they were born, they could have died either inside or outside the womb. They
could be people that study many subjects, but don’t dare to apply for a job
involving any of them. These people prefer to be unemployed and live off of
welfare or the support of their parents. They manage themselves well in a
crisis because they are used to getting satisfaction with very little and
living with only pennies. Social, family, and romantic relationships “drown”
them. They may refuse to express themselves, and when they do, they may
experience a sensation of asphyxia.
Feet First Baby
A person born under these
conditions may be afraid to move forward in life. He/she assumes that “life is
a struggle”, and he/she is not able to do things right.They believe in being
inappropriate and feel guilty for injuries/pain inflicted upon the mother.
Transverse Baby
The baby “doesn’t want to leave”
or “gets lost when looking for the exit”. These are people that face a lot of
confusion and opposition. At many times they feel that in order to survive,
they should take the wrong direction.
Breech Baby
These people have ideas such as
“I have to prove myself” and “I’m going back”. They are afraid to move forward
and may suffer delays at school and grade repetition. They also may want to
show off sexually and exhibit themselves.
Vacuuming of Amniotic Fluid
It produces great anger. The
child perceives it as his/her betrayal of the mother from her lack of
cooperation. These people feel easily suffocated and may have suicidal
thoughts.
It’s very important to study the consultee’s
Parental Projection Period, all the factors involved at birth and also, the
study of the family tree because both studies are milestones in resolving the
main drama. These stories may be personal, or may belong to someone in the
genealogical tree and part of our inheritance.
