Altered consciousness,
perception and behaviour characterized by feelings of sadness, discouragement
and apathy. It is linked to a personal drama whether it is conscious or
unconscious.
Depression is often
related to the fact of wanting to "take the pressure" of dramas with
which we carry in our life. It is the passive manifestation of unexpressed
aggression towards oneself.
Identity conflict over
territory conflict, depreciation and guilt. In some women, sexual frustration
conflict masked, in which sexuality is experienced as a territory, "it's
mine".
It occurs when a person
suffers two major conflicts. On the one hand, he/she suffers an identity
conflict or non-recognition and simultaneously undergoes a conflict of
annoyance on the territory. The person is stopped, immobilized by their
inability to make decisions. The biological sense of depression is to remain paralyzed,
waiting, giving itself time to make the decisions that needs, to meet again and
take back its way. Example: Mrs. X has lost her identity as a mother to her
daughters. They have rebelled, they disrespect her, do not take her into
account and do not recognize her. Meanwhile, her husband, is organizing his/her territory, in all aspects and underestimates her.
Endogenous
depression: Its cause can be found in stories related to the
project clan or sense, unrealized duels, responsibilities on dramas not
assumed. economic Economic losses, love dramas, deaths, retirements, etc.
Reactive
depression: It arises from a traumatic event. People suffering
from this depression devalue themselves greatly. The conflict is quite clear
because the symptoms in the six months following the big shock appear.
Postpartum depression: At that time, woman becomes a mother. We lose a way
of life, while we face a new task that can frighten and devalue us.
Separation conflict
with our mother and conflict of feeling unprotected. We generate a fear of our
new role. Surely we have something pending with our mother or against our
father, who did not feel able at the time or perhaps we feel separated from
them.
Similarly, the illusion
for tomorrow, hope for a promising future, enthusiasm for all the great things
that are yet to come ... money, power, happiness, etc; Reaching this motivates
us enormously.
Present is miserable
but we banish and forget about it thanks to the dreams we have deposited in the
morning, all our desires will be filled in the future. But time passes and the
realization of our dreams never arrives.
We are desperate and
hopeless!
The illusion motivate
us, but now we have run out of strength.
Depression is a state
of energy depletion. We have lost the meaning of life, we do not accept the
present or our living conditions; we self blame or blame something or someone,
we judge and criticize.
We are motivated by
negativity, which further undermines our energies.
Our ability to laugh is
gone, we feel lack of love and self-esteem, have lost interest in work,
relationships, food, sex, hobbies, etc; by everything around us. We cannot even sleep.
We reject our
responsibilities, we hide to the duties and difficulties, because we feel
powerless and unable to make decisions, to move or act and also do not want to
ask for help or want help; We prefer that the circumstances or others are the
ones who change. We just want to sleep and do nothing. We declare our lives on
strike.
This state of despair
can manifest itself in materialistic individuals who have been for most of his/her life pursuing material gains that have achieved everything attainable,
but now cannot enjoy anything because the desire to hoard wealth, power,
recognition, etc. have lost themselves and have no reason to live, they feel
empty inside.
They may also fall into
a deep depression, those who had childhood conflicts with their parent of the
opposite sex. Somehow they were able to feel the rejection, abandonment,
humiliation, betrayal or have been treated with indifference or lack of respect
by the father or mother and still kept inside, pain, resentment and especially
anger, which produced that fact.
As you feel powerless
to express anger for fear of losing support and love, now it moves into this
negativity and is the only alternative to project it to your spouse.
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