Normally, dysmenorrhoea
is associated with acne (androgen production). It manifests itself in girls
whose mothers have fervently desired to have a male and have mismanaged male
hormones.
Conflict with
authority, standards and rules in the family. Painful menstruation is
indicative of what hurts a woman, that there is a rejection of the feminine
condition whose main characteristic is the responsiveness and deliverability.
It may be a reaction to the mother, who was the first woman model. This does
not mean she is not feminine, but she finds unattractive the role of woman,
"submissive" or that has too many "rules".
In this house rules are
harsh.
"I hate authority,
I do not want them to give me orders”
"Do not do this,
do not do that, you must do so, we must do this otherwise”
"I have no right
to exist, but on condition to do what they tell me" "I need freedom
to do what I want, when I want and who I want with"
"This family is
not normal, one aspect of my family hurts me”
Similarly,
dysmenorrhoea may be the result of a feeling of resentment toward a man (father
or other) or to men in general.
You can also hurt the
period demanding women who want to be free and independent and requiring the
same way that others are rigorous in meeting their commitments. They cannot
stand the lack of fulfilment of obligations or deadlines.
Likewise menstrual
disorders may also be an expression of the inability of women to "let
go" to give up or give in relationships with loved ones, and on issues
related to motherhood.
It is also possible
that cramps come from an erroneous "education", popular beliefs
transmitted by family.
Did you learn that it
was normal to have problems during menstruation?
Did they make you
believe, when you were a kid, that menstruating was shameful, sinful or dirty?
In addition, the period
can also be painful when a contradiction occurs in the way of valuing
sexuality, when it is considered dirty and sinful, but at the same time,
essential.
"It invades my
sexual level".
There is another aspect
in women that can also cause discomfort and pain in the period as is the choice
of having a child or not. When a child is desired, the onset of menstruation is
like a missed opportunity, again states that "could not be" so that
pain can express the disappointment of not getting pregnant.
When the period is
abundant, it may indicate a loss of joy of living because of a toxic
relationship with a member of the family.
"I want someone to
leave my family”
"I want to leave
this family”
"I'm afraid that
my partner dumps me".
Having painful periods
the first day of menstruation can mean, "I feel shame”
Recommendations to
recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
The women with problems
in their periods need to let go of his/her tendency to want to hold
and retain --the fact of wanting to retain, to keep, is evident in her body
during premenstruation: breast swell a little, there is a slight weight gaining
because of water retention, and heaviness in the womb-- Learn to let it go.
Think. The relationship
with the mother and femininity, is it painful? Have you inherited from your
mother negative images of femininity which you do not accept?
Accept femininity and
develop deliverability.
Reconciled with
yourself and understand sexual role menstruation as a ritual of purification.
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