It is the urinary
incontinence that occurs primarily at night.
"I feel good in my world
(sleep) and do not want to wake up”
It affects mostly to children
who feel a mixture of fear and rebellion against authority. During the day they
are under severe pressure, (school, parents, etc.) and feel they are overtaxed.
They have excessive ambitions of parents and may suffer, disagreements between
parents on the method of education to follow.
During the day, these children
cannot relax or make their own claims, cannot break free from the pressure they
are being subjected.
"They invade my
territory”
They feel rejected and
oppressed because they have imposed a pattern of behaviour that prevents it
from being as they really are.
"I am moved and I am
afraid, I seek security”
Bedwetting may be the result
of fear that the child feels toward his/her parents, and especially toward
his/her father or toward the figure that fulfils that role (grandparent,
teacher, etc.). They may be afraid to upset him/her for not obeying their
wishes or fear disappoint, not keep up, or failing to meet the expectations of
these.
Enuresis in girls is often
related to a conflict of brutal separation linked to sexuality.
Example: after the separation
or divorce of parents.
"Dad no longer takes care
of me!"
"I feel apart from my
father!"
Recommendations to recover
physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Nocturnal enuresis (conflict
of marking territory) is the unconscious protest against wrong treatment; It
occurs when the child has lost control over his/her conscience (territory) and
is the answer to the pressure bearing during the day.
Enuresis allows relaxation of
the sustained pressure and provides the opportunity to make parents, always
giving example of strength, feel helpless, because what can they do?
The mission of a father or a
mother is to ensure by all possible means to give freedom to their child.
Because whenever someone is forced without being able to choose we are
destroying his/her intelligence.
True education is not to
introduce the child our own ideas or beliefs but help him/her come to light
what the child has inside, allow to develop his/her qualities, prepare to be
himself/herself, because every child is unique and has never been, nor there
will be no one like him/her
These children, who may even
require too much of themselves, can be helped to relax by telling them they are
good children, by recognizing their talents and values and by supporting and
telling them that even if they make mistakes, we will still love them.
Check whether the territory
problem is because of the mother.
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