From the Latin “fibra”, symbolically means
"family ties". “Mio”, from the Greek, that means muscle, and
“algias”, that means pain.
Fibromyalgia is considered a controversial
diagnosis and some authors claim that should not be considered as a disease
because among other reasons, lack of abnormalities on physical examination,
laboratory tests medical studies trying to confirm the diagnosis.
It is called fibromyalgia to a group of symptoms
and muscleskeletal disorders poorly understood, which is mainly characterized
by extreme fatigue, persistent pain, stiffness of varying intensity of the muscles, tendons and a wide range of other psychological symptoms, such as
trouble sleeping, morning stiffness , headaches and problems with thinking and
memory, sometimes called "blackouts" that often prevent the
functioning routine of people. It is a disorder present in approximately
between 3 and 6 percent of young women, usually between 20 and 50 years old.
One thing to note, because it is a poorly
understood symptom of fibromyalgia patients feel that others do not believe
them because the pain is not. It is an inner suffering, it is the disease of
family fibbers.
People with fibromyalgia are blocked in
understanding family relationships. On the one hand they like to live with the
family and be part of it, to feel loved and understood and on the other hand,
feel that the family requires or prevents him/her from doing his/her life. They
feel it is due to them, that they should give explanations, ask for permission,
share everything with them, etc. Even, sometimes, they may feel
"obligated" to someone in the family who hurts them or has hurt them
in the past.
This is called the conflict of dual
obligation:
"I am in a double family commitment”
"I have loyalty to my family, but this
bothers me”
"I go to the person I love but at the same
time, he/she is my
executioner"
"I want to say something for myself
but I do not grant the right, the family thinks different”
"I love this family, but this family hurts
me, but I feel helpless”
Another situation that can cause fibromyalgia, is
to live 4 simultaneous conflicts and all at the family level:
Conflict of direction Conflict for choosing the wrong
direction, being on a bad track, whether real, imaginary or symbolic.
Devaluation by not finding the right path. "The direction I'm taking in my
life does not satisfy me”
"What am I doing here?" "I'm lost,
out of the herd, then ... when someone is lost is best to stay still”
It affects the adrenal cortex, which stops
producing cortisol to help overcome the stress that the loss caused me.
I do not know what to do, do not know where to
go.
Devaluation Conflict: we have locks to convert inner
impulses to outdoor activities:
"Devaluation conflict with what I do or I
stop doing”
"If I move aside, I'm not good; if I move to
the other, either I'm fine, therefore I do not move. "
"I cannot handle this, it is too much for
me”
Contact family conflict tax: having to assume, do
or be with a person or situation.
I take care of .... be with .... live ....
Fear of death: Another major conflict that can
exist behind a fibromyalgia is the "fear of death" but not physical
death, but the death of his/her own "identity" (feeling of not
belonging to my royal family or I imagine it, or feel that the family does not
do what I want).
"I feel I die, my family does not support
me, I belong to my family”
Sufferers of fibromyalgia are exceedingly helpful
and responsible people. The problem is that they hurt themselves in their
eagerness to serve others (family). They are people who do favours for anyone,
and are able to stop living their lives by serving other members. Even,
sometimes, despite being the ones dealing perform most housework, they are
slighted, criticized, etc.
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