Fertilization is the
realization of a project. The project of a child is a conscious part and the
other unconscious. On many occasions it is totally unconscious.
Pregnancy itself may
constitute a conflict, but the woman may not be aware of it. It may be an
unwanted child by a failure in contraception, because it happened in an
unwanted point in the life of that woman, you do not feel happy in the bosom of
the new family, etc.
Conversely, pregnancy
can often represent the resolution of a conflict.
For example: not being
able to have children, the woman may feel worthless, or feel it lacks a proper
place and therefore feel devalued.
Or you could have
problems of lack of recognition of her own femininity and yet, when she became
pregnant, these conflicts disappeared, no longer affected them anymore.
The resolution of these
conflicts is often accompanied by physical symptoms such as edema or severe
vomiting, which usually disappear after about two months of pregnancy, if they
occur for longer they could affect to the normal development of the baby.
Pathologies of
pregnancy and childbirth.
Ectopic
or tubal pregnancy: If a fertilized egg is implanted outside the
uterus, it is called ectopic or tubal pregnancy.
The conflict that can
cause this type of pregnancy is that women want to get pregnant consciously,
but not unconsciously.
The woman wants and
does not want, at the same time. For different reasons rejects this pregnancy
(concerns, financial problems, do not have time to deal with the baby, work
problems, couple, etc)
So phrases that could
hear a woman are: "I want to have a child and do not want it"
"It is not the right time" "I cannot take responsibility for
this baby in this environment. The space I have in my house is very small"
Who is the father, my
husband or my lover? "It is not a proper father"
My pregnancy is out of
standard, uses and customs.
Violent relationship
with the couple.
Addled
egg or anembryonic gestation. It is an egg fertilized by sperm but does
not start the process of cell division that leads to the formation of the baby.
It is said that the egg is "empty”.
"Having the desire
for a child".
The mother has a great
desire to have a child but without a project, without concretizing without
realizing. She is pregnant with a wish.
It can also happen that
the mother has a great desire to have the child and the father a great desire
to not have it or vice versa.
Uterine
contractions during pregnancy:
It may be due to a
drama lived by the mother during pregnancy. The uterus contracts as if to
remove the baby. The baby feels at some point the pain and lack of space, so
the solution is to have before the birth contractions.
We can find out: What
is it that the mother lived in the same month of pregnancy with her own mother?
Example: "I want
to take someone from my home, my family, I go myself"
Gravidarum
toxemia, eclampsia:
Toxemia: The
placenta becomes toxic.
"I'm scared to
death, I'm afraid to die during childbirth".
Eclampsia: The
accident of acute toxemia of pregnancy consisting of a repeated convulsions
followed by coma access. It is a serious problem of urgency; in partum
haemorrhage, hypertension, edema, possibly epilepsy, kidney problems, etc.
occur
The mother is as if the
feeling or the need to:
"I want to kill
someone to give life to this child (husband, father, etc)".
Edema occurs when edema
in the legs or arms may be a phase resolution of an earlier conflict to the
design and the notion of this resolution appears: "I lost all my
references"
Bleeding:
Bleeding is linked to the blood and it represents the family, therefore it is a
conflict in relation to the family.
"I want to remove
someone from my family"
If it is a blood clot,
it can mean: "I want to eliminate the union between two people or this
union is attacking me"
Anaemia may occur in
highly conflictive family pictures.
"I do not want to
disturb the other, do not want to take his/her
place, his/her oxygen"
"I'm afraid to disturb". "I have no right to be in this family”
"To survive you need not to answer, not to fight. "I have no right to
fight”
Haemorrhoids affect the
veins around the anus therefore is a familiar theme. Who am I?
"I have no place
in this family. I have no place with this new identity (Mom)".
Who am I, my husband's
wife or the mother of my child?
Overproduction of milk:
I'm afraid for the baby during pregnancy (example: having spent several amniocentesis).
Softening: How it
affects the bones is a devaluation conflict.
What am I? I feel
useless.
RH Incompatibility:
"I do not want this toxic and deadly family and I must protect my
son"
"I wish my child
did not belong to this family"
Esophageal atresia: (The esophagus does not develop properly)
My son does not need
more than me and I give it all through my blood.
Hypertension: I
resist to defend myself and fight. To protect my family. (It may be that your
partner does not want the baby and wants her to miscarry it).
Umbilical
cord around the neck: In many cases, people who have had this
problem, when adults, they may feel some pressure at a throat level.
Fluid
problems (including economic liquidity).
"If I have liquid,
I can die"
Mother problems with
your partner.
"It is necessary
to sacrifice the child in order the couple lives"
People born with the
umbilical cord around his/her neck, when adults, often
have difficulty making a living, to be autonomous financially, because their
unconscious recorded the age of autonomy of the person, that is, the output
maternal belly represents a danger of death.
Placenta
previa (when the placenta is placed in the cervix and the
baby cannot leave).
"I protect my
child from a violation of the father or any other aggression.
My child could be
attacked". (It can happen to the woman who does not want much sex during
pregnancy but, however, her partner usually requests for it).
Placental
abruption: "I'm afraid to be toxic and to harm my baby”
(For example, in women who drink alcohol, smoke or take drugs).
"The outside world
is dangerous” (It is women who are afraid to relate).
Cancer of the placenta, "I feel afraid of not being able to get along
with my pregnancy"
Twins: The
meaning may be linked to the loss of a previous child or other deaths of
children in the family.
There may also be
problems in families with hyperthyroidism, "we must make quick many
children to gain time and have multiple pregnancies"
Types of births: the type of childbirth can define patterns of
behaviour, which can affect people as adults.
Blocked
childbirth.
Pregnancy goes well,
the normal labour starts, but birth is blocked, there is a fetal distress and
an emergency caesarean is practiced. They are people who develop their projects
well but always find it difficult to complete them. Always something that
prevents them from successfully conclude what they undertake occurs.
Very quick births,
without time to reach the hospital.
"Being born
quickly saved my life" Being fast is a good solution. They are people who
do everything very fast, they have many ideas.
Slow births. "Being
born slowly saved my life”
They are people who are
in no hurry, do everything slowly, often lazy people.
Breech
birth: "I show who I am". I was expected as a
male being a girl or vice versa.
"Everything
outside is black, negative and want to backpedal. Fear of going forward. "
Delayed
birth: Gestational age concludes and the woman does not go
into labour. The baby cannot continue any longer inside.
By the child, "I
do not want to go out and brake birth"
By the mother, "I
want to remain a child, I do not feel prepared”
Or, "I do not feel
ready to leave my son"
Caesarean
birth: When there are health problems, risk to the mother
or baby, twins or other multiples, is recommended in many cases to schedule a
caesarean section.
In the baby caesarean
sections the action of birth has been undertaken but problems arise and you
need to practice this technique. In the unconscious, they have the belief that
they always need help recording to perform any task in life. Sometimes they
take action but after a while, they do not continue. They may have difficulty
in school, work and live their responsibilities with great suffering. They feel
helpless and indecisive to take things for themselves.
When emergency
caesarean occurs, we can say that the woman does not want to give birth,
refuses it, because she has strong conflicts with her partner.
Forceps
birth: The baby borns by forceps or vacuum, undergoes a
painful intervention of a third party, in a situation of danger for survival.
"It is thanks to the forceps that I'm still alive"
This may subsequently
lead to conflicts at key moments of his/her
life, as when has to "birth to something new". People born by this
technique have difficulty reaching the end of their decisions for themselves,
often demand always help to people, so they like to do things in groups.
They feel they are not
good enough, no matter how much you do, it's never enough. They may suffer
chronic lack of will.
They may fear physical
contact or feel that head and heart are separated.
They are usually very
intellectual people, who need to understand everything, "my head is very
solid”
Recommendations to
recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Making a duel after an
abortion:
After an abortion, we
must make a duel for the Self that is gone, whether for relaxation and
visualization, or just writing a letter to that soul that never came to us with
the following sections:
1 Putting a name.
2 Apologize, forgive
their march and forgive ourselves and our ancestors who have gone through
similar situations.
3 Ask if you need some
more work (to be attentive to sensations).
4 Saying goodbye and
drop, let go.
5 Thank experience on
our behalf and that of our ancestors.
6 We can include a drawing
or similar, that we associate with the baby.
7 Lastly, we deliver
that letter to the land (buried), air (released with a balloon), water (sea or
river), or fire (burned), and finally back to thank.
That abortion may have
occurred because the woman should not be guided by family, social, religious,
etc. appraisals, to make the decision to become pregnant.
The expectant mother
absolutely must take responsibility when it's time or not, to have a child.
A woman should be
mother knowing what she does, because giving birth to a child is one thing, any
woman can do, but being a mother is a special quality because since the child
is in her womb, it depends entirely on her.
Then, when the child is
born, the mother also feels as if she were born again. And when the child
begins to grow, the mother also grows with it.
When the woman feels
she is ready to love unconditionally that would be the right time to get
pregnant.
The solution lies in
love, in delivery. In seek union with the new Being and serve selflessly. Thus,
neither the fear of liability or the selfish feeling of losing freedom, would
fit within women to cause abortion.
When a mother focuses
on the needs of her child, the pregnancy develops harmoniously.
Knowing ourselves: What does the body want to tell us with diseases?
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