A biologically pregnancy is
like a tumour and at first the mother produces antibodies to deal with this foreign
body. It is the only "natural growth" in the womb with cell
multiplication, with the particularity that are cells from another person.
Fertilization is the
realization of a project. The project of a child is a conscious part and the
other unconscious. On many occasions it is totally unconscious.
Pregnancy itself may
constitute a conflict, but the woman may not be aware of it. It may be an
unwanted child by a failure in contraception, because it happened in an
unwanted point in the life of that woman, you do not feel happy in the bosom of
the new family, etc.
Conversely, pregnancy can
often represent the resolution of a conflict.
For example: not being able to
have children, the woman may feel worthless, or feel it lacks a proper place
and therefore feel devalued.
Or you could have problems of
lack of recognition of her own femininity and yet, when she became pregnant,
these conflicts disappeared, no longer affected them anymore.
The resolution of these
conflicts is often accompanied by physical symptoms such as edema or severe
vomiting, which usually disappear after about two months of pregnancy, if they
occur for longer they could affect to the normal development of the baby.
Pathologies of pregnancy and
childbirth.
Ectopic or tubal pregnancy: If
a fertilized egg is implanted outside the uterus, it is called ectopic or tubal
pregnancy.
The conflict that can cause
this type of pregnancy is that women want to get pregnant consciously, but not
unconsciously.
The woman wants and does not
want, at the same time. For different reasons rejects this pregnancy (concerns,
financial problems, do not have time to deal with the baby, work problems,
couple, etc)
So phrases that could hear a
woman are: "I want to have a child and do not want it" "It is
not the right time" "I cannot take responsibility for this baby in
this environment. The space I have in my house is very small"
Who is the father, my husband
or my lover? "It is not a proper father"
My pregnancy is out of
standard, uses and customs.
Violent relationship with the
couple.
Addled egg or anembryonic
gestation. It is an egg fertilized by sperm but does not start the process of
cell division that leads to the formation of the baby. It is said that the egg
is "empty”.
"Having the desire for a
child".
The mother has a great desire
to have a child but without a project, without concretizing without realizing.
She is pregnant with a wish.
It can also happen that the
mother has a great desire to have the child and the father a great desire to not
have it or vice versa.
Uterine contractions during
pregnancy:
It may be due to a drama lived
by the mother during pregnancy. The uterus contracts as if to remove the baby.
The baby feels at some point the pain and lack of space, so the solution is to
have before the birth contractions.
We can find out: What is it
that the mother lived in the same month of pregnancy with her own mother?
Example: "I want to take
someone from my home, my family, I go myself"
Gravidarum toxemia, eclampsia:
Toxemia: The placenta becomes
toxic.
"I'm scared to death, I'm
afraid to die during childbirth".
Eclampsia: The accident of
acute toxemia of pregnancy consisting of a repeated convulsions followed by
coma access. It is a serious problem of urgency; in partum haemorrhage,
hypertension, edema, possibly epilepsy, kidney problems, etc. occur
The mother is as if the
feeling or the need to:
"I want to kill someone
to give life to this child (husband, father, etc)".
Edema occurs when edema in the
legs or arms may be a phase resolution of an earlier conflict to the design and
the notion of this resolution appears: "I lost all my references"
Bleeding:
Bleeding is linked to the blood and it represents the family, therefore it is a
conflict in relation to the family.
"I want to remove someone
from my family"
If it is a blood clot, it can
mean: "I want to eliminate the union between two people or this union is
attacking me"
Anaemia may
occur in highly conflictive family pictures.
"I do not want to disturb
the other, do not want to take his/her place, his/her oxygen" "I'm
afraid to disturb". "I have no right to be in this family” "To
survive you need not to answer, not to fight. "I have no right to fight”
Haemorrhoids affect
the veins around the anus therefore is a familiar theme. Who am I?
"I have no place in this
family. I have no place with this new identity (Mom)".
Who am I, my husband's wife or
the mother of my child?
Overproduction of milk: I'm
afraid for the baby during pregnancy (example: having spent several
amniocentesis).
Softening: How it affects the
bones is a devaluation conflict.
What am I? I feel useless.
RH Incompatibility: "I do
not want this toxic and deadly family and I must protect my son"
"I wish my child did not
belong to this family"
Esophageal
atresia: (The esophagus does not develop properly)
My son does not need more than
me and I give it all through my blood.
Hypertension: I resist to
defend myself and fight. To protect my family. (It may be that your partner
does not want the baby and wants her to miscarry it).
Umbilical cord around the
neck: In many cases, people who have had this problem, when adults, they may
feel some pressure at a throat level.
Fluid problems (including
economic liquidity).
"If I have liquid, I can
die"
Mother problems with your
partner.
"It is necessary to
sacrifice the child in order the couple lives"
People born with the umbilical
cord around his/her neck, when adults, often have difficulty making a living,
to be autonomous financially, because their unconscious recorded the age of
autonomy of the person, that is, the output maternal belly represents a danger
of death.
Placenta previa (when the
placenta is placed in the cervix and the baby cannot leave).
"I protect my child from
a violation of the father or any other aggression.
My child could be
attacked". (It can happen to the woman who does not want much sex during
pregnancy but, however, her partner usually requests for it).
Placental abruption: "I'm
afraid to be toxic and to harm my baby” (For example, in women who drink
alcohol, smoke or take drugs).
"The outside world is
dangerous” (It is women who are afraid to relate).
Cancer of the
placenta, "I feel afraid of not being able to get along with my
pregnancy"
Twins: The meaning may be
linked to the loss of a previous child or other deaths of children in the
family.
There may also be problems in
families with hyperthyroidism, "we must make quick many children to gain
time and have multiple pregnancies"
Types of births: the
type of childbirth can define patterns of behaviour, which can affect people as
adults.
Blocked childbirth.
Pregnancy goes well, the
normal labour starts, but birth is blocked, there is a fetal distress and an
emergency caesarean is practiced. They are people who develop their projects
well but always find it difficult to complete them. Always something that
prevents them from successfully conclude what they undertake occurs.
Very quick births, without
time to reach the hospital.
"Being born quickly saved
my life" Being fast is a good solution. They are people who do everything
very fast, they have many ideas.
Slow births. "Being born
slowly saved my life”
They are people who are in no
hurry, do everything slowly, often lazy people.
Breech birth: "I show who
I am". I was expected as a male being a girl or vice versa.
"Everything outside is
black, negative and want to backpedal. Fear of going forward. "
Delayed birth: Gestational age
concludes and the woman does not go into labour. The baby cannot continue any
longer inside.
By the child, "I do not
want to go out and brake birth"
By the mother, "I want to
remain a child, I do not feel prepared”
Or, "I do not feel ready
to leave my son"
Caesarean birth: When there
are health problems, risk to the mother or baby, twins or other multiples, is
recommended in many cases to schedule a caesarean section.
In the baby caesarean sections
the action of birth has been undertaken but problems arise and you need to
practice this technique. In the unconscious, they have the belief that they
always need help recording to perform any task in life. Sometimes they take
action but after a while, they do not continue. They may have difficulty in
school, work and live their responsibilities with great suffering. They feel
helpless and indecisive to take things for themselves.
When emergency caesarean
occurs, we can say that the woman does not want to give birth, refuses it,
because she has strong conflicts with her partner.
Recommendations to recover
physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Making a duel after an
abortion:
After an abortion, we must
make a duel for the Self that is gone, whether for relaxation and
visualization, or just writing a letter to that soul that never came to us with
the following sections:
1 Putting a name.
2 Apologize, forgive their
march and forgive ourselves and our ancestors who have gone through similar
situations.
3 Ask if you need some more
work (to be attentive to sensations).
4 Saying goodbye and drop, let
go.
5 Thank experience on our
behalf and that of our ancestors.
6 We can include a drawing or
similar, that we associate with the baby.
7 Lastly, we deliver that
letter to the land (buried), air (released with a balloon), water (sea or
river), or fire (burned), and finally back to thank.
That abortion may have
occurred because the woman should not be guided by family, social, religious, etc.
appraisals, to make the decision to become pregnant.
The expectant mother
absolutely must take responsibility when it's time or not, to have a child.
A woman should be mother
knowing what she does, because giving birth to a child is one thing, any woman
can do, but being a mother is a special quality because since the child is in
her womb, it depends entirely on her.
Then, when the child is born,
the mother also feels as if she were born again. And when the child begins to
grow, the mother also grows with it.
When the woman feels she is
ready to love unconditionally that would be the right time to get pregnant.
The solution lies in love, in
delivery. In seek union with the new Being and serve selflessly. Thus, neither
the fear of liability or the selfish feeling of losing freedom, would fit
within women to cause abortion.
When a mother focuses on the
needs of her child, the pregnancy develops harmoniously.
No comments:
Post a Comment