The sacrum tells us about what is fundamental, essential and “sacred” for
each of us based on our education, our religion or our culture.
Sometimes we
are confronted with relationship conflicts due to having religious precepts
that force us to comply with a series of commandments such as not stealing, not
lusting after another's wife or incest prohibition.
We are also exposed to
conflicts for maintaining specific political ideals or for possessing specific
moral concepts. In the same way, we can feel devalued by conflicts related to
honor, honesty, sexuality, etc.
What are the sacred moments of life for the Human Being?
1. The conception
2. The birth
3. The responsible adult
4. Paternity / Maternity
5. Being a grandfather or grandmother
6. Death
The problems in the sacrum express to us that we are living a conflict in
which I have to choose between “two opposite directions” regarding what is
fundamental, essential and sacred for the individual. These are two messages,
two contradictory attitudes that are opposed and apparently incompatible,
making the situation problematic and often without solution.
Example: a person who for her is fundamental the family fidelity and, on
the other hand, feels that his family is causing her a lot of suffering. What
does she do?
The person feels cornered, alone, in an environment difficult to
solve at the same time. "If I move to one side I'm not okay, if I move to
the other I'm not okay, therefore I don't move."
Since we cannot go in two opposite directions or navigate with one foot
in each boat, the unconscious provides us with symptoms that incapacitate us so
that we do not have to choose between two opposing paths.
The person is blocked
between two opposing proposals, which lead him to a state of mind centered on
the powerlessness to choose.
The solution to this conflict is to achieve a possible agreement between
these two contradictory poles and thus be able to find peace with you.
The sacrum has a very important link with sexuality, always from the
point of view of what is fundamental, essential and "sacred" for each
one.
For what purpose, why is the sacrum blocked? It is blocked to avoid
having to perform the sexual act.
Sacral or Tarlov cyst: it warns us of problems of infidelity in the
couple, or of incest (real or symbolic), rapes, touching, etc.
Likewise, it can be due to restrictive behaviors related to sexuality in
the family, such as when sexuality is prohibited between members of the clan
(incest), due to age differences, religion, homosexuality, prostitution, etc.
“I have no right to make love to my brother, cousin, etc.
Of course, we must take into account whether incest is symbolic because
of the unconscious, if our partner has an affinity with our mother, father,
grandfather, etc., it will be classified as incest as well and it will have an
impact on many aspects of the relationship.
We can have discomfort in the sacrum if during childhood or adolescence
we have witnessed shocking sexual scenes that overwhelmed us emotionally.
Sacroiliac joint: it expresses a state of sexual devaluation on the
part of my partner or ex-partner, because perhaps, there are situations at a
sexual level that are not yet resolved.
There may be a total absence of sex,
but without having reached a spoken agreement between the two of them, or it
may be that I feel inexperienced in sexual matters or that my partner devalues
or criticizes my body, etc.
Or perhaps, I am living a situation of love imposed by being married to
someone I do not love, but I have to endure it because it satisfies my family.
Another conflict may be the type of sexuality that I live with my partner
that is perhaps extremely disgusting for me, because he has a mania that I
cannot bear, or an unpleasant fetish, or he asks me to have threesomes, that is,
experiences that are not for me correct, decent and that do not make me feel
good.
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