One of the key moments that defines
our personality and the kind of life that we’ll have, is the method of
childbirth through which we were born.
This is a part of what we call The
Parental Projection Period. This is the period of time 9 months before conception
up to 3 years of age.
We show our first sign of
“autonomy” during our delivery.
In fact, the babies themselves are the ones who
determine the time in which they are born.
“How” the delivery is developed and
done, will trace our patterns of behaviour throughout our whole life.
The way we are born defines
the way we develop our personal, emotional, working life, etc.
Induced Labor And Delivery
When we force a delivery, we
are depriving the baby of the opportunity to decide when he or she is ready to
be born. Consequently, the people that are born under such circumstances will
face difficulties in knowing when is the right time to start new projects and
will always find themselves waiting for others to make decisions for them.
Sped up Labor and Delivery
When a woman goes into labor
and the doctor decides to speed up the delivery, the babies that are born will
have a high level of “urgency” in any situation during their lives.
This type
of labor creates a feeling of “There’s no need to wait for the right time.
All
things need to be rushed and done right away”.
Cesarean Section
The baby may experience a
sense of discontinuation and might be born with the feeling that he or she has
been diverted from their path and natural rhythm.
He/she may also feel expelled
from an environment where he/she felt safe.
Emergency Cesarean Section
The baby gets confused. He or
she doesn’t understand what is happening.
The process is interrupted. Something
has come up, disabling the baby to complete the process.
This could result in
people who begin a process and suddenly stop doing it.
“Why keep going? Maybe
something urgent will happen to distract me from my initial plan”.
Scheduled Cesarean Section
The baby doesn’t feel ready to
be born, but a doctor decides to force the child’s entrance into the world by
pulling he/she from a safe place because they (the doctors) think that “the
baby is ready”.
This is a fatal mistake because a person born this way will feel
totally powerless, like a loser, and will probably be unable to make decisions
or plans.
These people also have difficulties to finish tasks or reaching the
end of something.
They always need external help, like a last minute miracle,
to save them.
This scheduled c- section can also fear of light and of sharp
objects. They also feel guilty of having wounded their own mothers.
Unconscious Birth Mother
When there’s a high dose of
anesthesia, the baby is born asleep.
This results in the type of people who suddenly
begin doing something and start to feel tired and sleepy midway.
They also have
a tendency to avoid emotions and sufference.
They may use drugs and alcohol in
order to do so, and fail to fix their own problems.
If the mother dies, the
child would live a life of guilt, and happiness would be forbidden, since the
individual would be “paying for killing his/her mother”.
Premature Birth
Premature birth expresses the
need to “be born now”.
This need may be motivated by the mother’s own fears,
emotional absence, or physical illnesses.
When the mother is frightened by
something, the baby receives the signal that he/she needs to come out at that
moment, or else “it’ll be too late”.
People born prematurely often have
concerns about punctuality, fear of being late, anxiety, fear of making others
wait, etc.
They could be fragile, weak and vulnerable (even though they might
hide behind a mask of self confidence and strength).
They are very self
conscious and worry about what others think of them.
Prolonged Labor and Delivery
Faced with a difficulty or a
conflict, the mother wants to keep the child because it is not the time or she
doesn’t feel ready.
The mother intends to continue pregnancy,carrying the
child inside, even if her child is ready.
Those who are results of prolonged
labor will usually have difficulties to perform actions, find time management
to be a challenge, and will often create delays.
They also tend to be always
late or not be aware of the existence of time.
Precipitous Labor and Delivery
These are the kinds of births
in which the baby comes out faster than the mother feels that he/she’s coming.
These people are often nervous, hurried, and always rushing.
They want
everything to be done immediately and always try to speed things up.
They are energetic,
hyperactive, and good athletes.
They feel like they can achieve success quickly
and they do everything very fast.
They also have many ideas, and taking to
extremes, they may suffer from thyroid imbalances and disease like
hyperthyroidism.
Slow Labor
The labor starts but the
mother takes hours to achieve the proper dilatation for the baby to come out.
This results in people who do everything slowly, and are never in a hurry.
They
may have the idea of “being born slowly has saved my life”. They find themselves
to be lazy and may suffer from being overweight or could end up having having
thyroid disorders such as hypothyroidism.
Assisted Vaginal Delivery
(with the use of forceps of a vacuum)
There is a conflict between
the mother and the father.
The baby begins the process of labor, the dilatation
is good, things get moving, but at a the moment of birth everything gets
blocked. Here, we make use of forceps or vacuums to bring the baby out. People
who are born this way have challenges in reaching the end of things by
themselves because their path of action was determined by their birth.
They are
always looking for work partners.
They need to do things in group because this
is how it happened when they were born.
When these people act and do important
things in their lives, they begin their course of action easily, but at the
peak of the process, they get emotionally blocked and feel that “I cannot do
this alone”. They dislike being controlled and may feel that other people
manipulate and force them to act.
They fear pain, avoid physical contact, are
emotionally detached, and need outside help.
But such help will hurt them.
They
suffer from different types of headaches such as migraines, neuralgias, tension
headaches, etc.
Nuchal Cord
(umbilical cord gets wrapped around the baby’s neck)
There could be a
transgenerational memory related to saving the couple, choking, and hanging
(memories involving the neck).
The baby begins labor, the cervix reaches
dilation, the baby is placed in the birth canal, and the cord gets wrapped
around the baby’s neck, choking the him/her.
The brain will register that
autonomy is life threatening. The people born this way will have financial
difficulties and issues when it comes to making a living because at the moment
they were born, they could have died either inside or outside the womb.
They
could be people that study many subjects, but don’t dare to apply for a job
involving any of them.
These people prefer to be unemployed and live off of
welfare or the support of their parents.
They manage themselves well in a
crisis because they are used to getting satisfaction with very little and
living with only pennies. Social, family, and romantic relationships “drown”
them.
They may refuse to express themselves, and when they do, they may experience
a sensation of asphyxia.
Feet First Baby
A person born under these
conditions may be afraid to move forward in life.
He/she assumes that “life is
a struggle”, and he/she is not able to do things right.
They believe in being inappropriate
and feel guilty for injuries/pain inflicted upon the mother.
Transverse Baby
The baby “doesn’t want to
leave” or “gets lost when looking for the exit”.
These are people that face a
lot of confusion and opposition. At many times they feel that in order to
survive, they should take the wrong direction.
Breech Baby
These people have ideas such
as “I have to prove myself” and “I’m going back”.
They are afraid to move
forward and may suffer delays at school and grade repetition.
They also may
want to show off sexually and exhibit themselves.
Vacuuming of Amniotic Fluid
It produces great anger.
The
child perceives it as his/her betrayal of the mother from her lack of
cooperation. These people feel easily suffocated and may have suicidal
thoughts.
It’s very important to study
the consultee’s Parental Projection Period, all the factors involved at birth
and also, the study of the family tree because both studies are milestones in
resolving the main drama.
These stories may be personal, or may belong to someone
in the genealogical tree and part of our inheritance.
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