KNOWING OURSELVES

KNOWING OURSELVES
This book can be of great value for those who want to take the path of responsibility in their lives, who want to take the first step toward freedom and self knowledge, using the topic of disease in humans as a guide. Its purpose is to help the sick person to find health status, based primarily on what happens within us. Because even if we can find help abroad (psychologists, doctors, gurus, etc.) the only ones who are able to heal us are ourselves. A book dedicated to physical, emotional and spiritual health.

Friday, 27 September 2019

PREMATURE EJACULATION, emotional and spiritual meaning


Premature ejaculation represents the unconscious fear that man has to enjoy copulating, fear of being caught or discovered by the predator. Fear when "somebody" surprises you, what bothers, interrupts you.
This conflict responds, in most cases to a tremendous fear of being "caught by the father" in the sexual act (unconscious). Most children suffer from hard, domineering parents.
This is a man whose father dies of fear (consciously or unconsciously) to feel that the child can unseat, take his place of "power" in the family. So the father stalks the son and  the son just never feels peace and tranquillity to fully enjoy a sexual act.
"My father castrates me and I have no right to be a man, to express myself sexually"
"When I make love I'm in danger. It is better to get in and out fast, because there are predators (may be the father or perhaps the mother)"
"When I have sex I'm in danger"
"Hurry, they are coming to surprise you"
"Sex should be fast or they catch me”
Wish to do it all very quickly. Wanting to end before starting.
Premature ejaculation can be also linked to early sexual experiences. When I masturbate, I feel guilty because I feel like something "bad" or "sinful", "forbidden". I hurry therefore to achieve ejaculation.
I can also impose pressures on my desire to achieve optimum results. I want to prove to myself and my partner "what I'm capable of doing" This same pressure can cause "we fail" in our challenge.
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Be aware that your father, the predator, will not come.
Strengthen your self-esteem and knowing you are able to enjoy sex.
Accept that your father or predator is not there.
Forgive your father for his character or his fears.
Mature emotionally and resume responsibility for your life.
Relax and relearn sexual pleasure linked to masturbation or with a partner, in a climate which is free from coercion and guilt.





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